Questions & Answers
What is Club Fling?
Despite the name, we are not really a club like Ruby Sky or 1015 Folsom is a club.
We are a private party held at a private residence for more of a relaxed, no-pressure
sexy atmosphere for open minded adults. No drugs are allowed. We have a dance floor and
a go-go dancer to get everybody started. We have theme rooms, beds, sex swing, restraints,
whips, and other props to keep you happy.
When are your parties?
We hold parties every Friday and Saturday, with a few exceptions. Our parties are
customized with a lifestyle theme: from "Newbie Meet'N'Greet" and "Interracial Night" to
"Naughty Schoolgirl Night" and "Wild Wild West Party". We open our doors at 10pm and we close at 3am.
Where are you located?
We are located about 10 minutes south of San Jose. You will have to RSVP and confirm in
order to get our address and directions as we do not accept walk-ins.
How do I get invited?
All you have to do is click on the "Get Invited" link on top. Once you submit your request
for invitation - we will send you more information and await your confirmation back. If you
are a single male - you will be pre-screened by a series of questions.
How many couples and singles attend your parties?
Attendance varies and is impossible to predict. On average we get anywhere from 15 to 25 couples
and a half a dozen of pre-screened singles. It should be noted that slower nights generate more
play where more crowded nights become more social.
What is the average age of those who attend your parties?
This varies as well and is as just impossible to predict as the number of attendees. On average we
our crowd is in its 30s and 40s. However, we get plenty of couples in their 20s as well.
What shall we/I wear to your parties?
The simple answer is: whatever you're comfortable in. However, we do encourage people to dress up as
if you were going to a classy nightclub or a co-worker's birthday party. Of course, if we do have
a dress-up related theme ( like our "Whiteout Night" ) - we certainly encourage you to get into the spirit
of the theme. It is always a good idea for ladies to bring a change of clothes in case if you decide to
flaunt it and slip into something sexier ( "slutwear" is encouraged ). Bring change of shoes as well if
you're wearing heals.
What if we're new or/and shy?
You're not alone. We cater to many newbies in the lifestyle and make sure you feel comfortable
in our environment. We have a "no sex no nudity" section of our club which is always a "safe zone" for
those who are looking to take it easy and just hang out. You can also mention your newbie status to the
host and/or hostess and s/he will make sure to give you special attention and check up on you throughout
the night. We will make sure to introduce you to others if you are looking to socialize or you
can be a wallflower and observe from a distance. You may also want to check out
the Swingers Handbook to find out more
about the lifestyle and lifestyle parties.
Are single males invited?
Yes, they are but in very limited numbers and all single men are carefully pre-screened. 1 out of
50 men who apply to come is actually invited. Our average ratio between single men and couples is
usually 1 single male to 5 couples.
What if my question wasn't answered here?
Please do not hesitate to click the "Contact Us" link on the top of this page and we'll make
sure to answer all of your queries within 24 hours.
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